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But this is a moot discussion. She is spoken for. That is the end of that. Time to move on. Yes, no ?
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It depends. How much do you care for her?
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Do you think I am so dumb as to become emotionally attached to someone who is already in the arms of someone else? DDG is a visual thing, I cannot control that. Emotions are another matter. They are to be managed and watched over.
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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I don't think that sort of thing is dumb. Either way, I think moving on some one who taken is taboo. Same thing with accepting an offer from from some one who is taken. I had to reject some one I really really liked once, because they were already with some one else.
Either way you have two options:
1 - move on.
2- wait patiently. if you feel she is worth it, then I say go with this one. thats why i asked how much you liked her.
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We have no need to explore number one. About your second option, waiting, I think it is a total waste of time. Even when they break up why does that mean that suddenly I will be in the number one spot? How many times should I wait?
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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Thats why I asked how important she was! And no to your statement, " Even when they break up why does that mean that suddenly I will be in the number one spot?", I meant wait until she likes you. But not to except rebound.
If she is really important enough then option two would seem reasonable.
But it seem like you'd rather move on. So then do that. Just move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, and all that jazz.
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If she is really important enough then option two would seem reasonable.
You mean if I am stupidly lovesick enough I will wait until she finishes with her next 20 BF's. One of the advantages of being thousands of years old is you move on.
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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Hey, you asked me. If you had this all figured out then why ask my opinion? Just to make me feel little for being an (apparently "stupid") hopeless romantic?
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At your age everyone is a hopeless romantic. So you are not stupid just human. I was not really asking a question when I said Yes, no. I was saying do you understand why moving on is the only choice.
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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At your age everyone is a hopeless romantic.
HAH! I beg to differ. As a teen that have met and spent time with many teens, I have to say that the percent of us who go into relationships with noble intentions and those who don't, is about 50% 50%.
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Oh yes, but sooner or later and believe me I know, all of you will fall victim at least once. Bet on it!
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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I do not need to be told. I am one of those with noble intentions. Because of this, I get hurt a lot.
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A lot! Your hurts are yet to come. Think those teeny boys are good? Wait till you run into the 20+ year olds, and worse the 40+ year olds.
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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Thank you for reiterating something I already know- that because of my stupidity and tolerance of letting people I care for, to walk all over me, that I will live a life void of any romantic happiness on my end. Again, thanks.
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If you live that life it will be by your own choice and you will be happy to have made that choice.
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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Maybe. One person who was close to me during a tough relationship, told me "if you keep it up, at least you will make someone else happy"
He was being sarcastic, but either way. He also said "ya want me to kick his *** for ya?" xD
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Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord
He who seeks revenge starts by digging two graves
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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I'm not sure what your getting at, but if it helps I said no to that particular question.
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Smart move. Remember it is your choice to live that life.
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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Thank you for the support. Besides, if I had wanted his *** kicked, I'd have done it myself.
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I cannot give you support. You are capable of managing your own life. Forget derriere kicking, that leads to the dark side.
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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Derrière?! LMAO!
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No, LMDO!
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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Oh dear god, I almost peed just now.
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It looks like I am being called away by circumstances. Will have to see you later.
In mathematics, you don't understand things. You just get used to them.
If it ain't broke, fix it until it is.
Always satisfy the Prime Directive of getting the right answer above all else.
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